Of Exes and Exorcisms

This ones been a long time coming.  I have written this post many times in my head.  Starting with that boy in pre-school who suddenly started holding another girl’s hand, all the way to taking wedding rings off.  Exes, the past, what has been, has long since tugged at my heart and held my attention and curiosity.

But isn’t it funny how sometimes a question gets answered without you even asking it? The other day someone said to me quite out of the blue, ‘You have to be the best version of yourself in every way.  No regret or bitterness.  It is the best way to honour the lessons you learnt, who you have become and the people you are fortunate enough to share your life with now.’

Thank you, ‘someone’.  I looked up and saw the stars where before there had been only night.

[Photo from  D E S I G N L O V E F E S T ]

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